Wondering if a girl is dating other guys?
First, take a deep breath, and take a load off 😤
It's OK and normal to want to know if a woman is seeing other men.
Besides, you deserve to know, so you can adjust your plans accordingly!
Today we'll cover 3 ways to tell if a woman has multiple partners.
Let's dive in 🪂
If a woman has multiple partners, she'll often behave accordingly.
For example, ask yourself:
These can all be signs that a woman you're seeing is also seeing other men.
Just be aware that none of these signs is definitive on its own.
For example, if you haven't been seeing each other for long, and she doesn't share why she's busy when she says she can't see you,she may just be exercising her independence, which is totally normal!
Also, keep in mind:
(PS — if you're not sure her feelings are genuine, check out these signs she is developing feelings for you!)
It might seem unintuitive, but...
The best way to know for sure if a woman has multiple partners is to directly ask her.
It can definitely be an awkward topic to discuss!
But if it's weighing on your mind, and you ask in a thoughtful way...
The right way to ask is 1x1, in-person, in the midst of a normal activity or date you share together.
Wait for the right moment, then ask 🗣️
Here's some sample language you can use to both soften and focus the question:
⚠️ One callout: it's not appropriate to ask if a woman is seeing other people until you've formed a deep enough relationship that the information is relevant.
There's no exact "appropriate" number of dates you need to have gone on before you ask, but...
⚠️ It's basically never appropriate to ask before a third date.
She may say she's seeing other people, and that can hurt (but it's actually OK, as we'll cover momentarily!)
This probably isn't what you want to hear, but it's the cold hard truth 🥶
If you haven't had "the talk" to establish that you're exclusive...
The girl you're dating is probably seeing other people!
This is the norm! It's impossible to know who the right partner will be without dating around a bit.
At risk of making a bad analogy, she needs to try a few samples to know which flavor to buy 😙
So, it's wise to assume any woman you're dating is seeing other guys, and plan accordingly:
If you're not dating around, you should be — here's a free guide on where to meet women in case it can be helpful!
Ok, what'd we learn today?
The best ways to tell if a woman has multiple partners are:
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