MEET Blaine

Hey, I'm Blaine!
It's great to meet you

I started Dating By Blaine to help men find their dream partners, and have more fun dating en route :)

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What guys are saying about Blaine

my approach

Smiling woman sitting cross-legged on a couch with pillows, using a laptop, with a plant and staircase in the background.

I take a systems-approach to dating, and my work draws on a variety of sources:

🤓 Some academic
Think Adlerian psychology, evolutionary biology, descriptive and inferential statistics.
🤠 Some not academic
e.g. my experiences dating across 6 continents, and serving 7,000+ clients!
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My programs are organized around my "5Es" of dating.

1️⃣ Empathize
Understanding what women want, and how to show you've got it
2️⃣ Embrace
building confidence in + showcasing the things that make you sexy
3️⃣ Embody
putting your best forward to meet women online and in-person
4️⃣ Engage
leading flirty, inspiring conversations that create romantic chemistry
5️⃣ Execute
orchestrating great dates and building relationships on your terms

fun facts about me

🤘 I'm a Texan by way of California. My husband and I moved to Austin from San Francisco in 2020.

😻 My dog Dee Dee and my one-eyed cat Cedar are the lights of my life. That's Dee Dee in the photo below!

💪 I love physical activities like surfing, paddle boarding, yoga, pilates, hiking, and Barry's Bootcamp.

🛫 Before Dating By Blaine, I worked in the travel industry, and was a digital nomad from 2016 to 2018.

🐙🌵 I'm obsessed with octopuses (no, I don't eat them!) and saguaro cacti (I grew up in Tucson, Arizona!)

🏅 I've been recognized as a Dating Coach by Coach Foundation, one of the biggest names in the coaching industry.

❤️ Nothing brings me more joy than making my clients successful, and I'd love to work with you!

Blaine in a white jacket with colorful fringe, crouching, holding her dog Dee Dee