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How I got started

My career as a dating coach for men technically began when I was in college.

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My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters.

The best guys had the worst luck with women, and it confused me.

I became obsessed with figuring out why. Do women hate “nice” guys? Or is there another problem?

What I've learned

Working with 2,000+ guys since I graduated has taught me a few things...

🗣️ First, dating for men is about marketing. If you can't communicate crisply and put your authentic best foot forward, most women won't give you the chance you deserve.

😬 Second, many great guys suck at marketing themselves. Marketing yourself isn't something you learn in school, which may explain why so many intelligent men are so bad at it!

🤓 Third, anyone (including you!) can learn to attract awesome women fast. As long as you believe in yourself, and believe you have something to learn, you will see big improvements fast once you make some small changes.

My approach

I take a systems-approach to dating, and my coaching draws on a wide variety of sources:

🤓 Some academic (e.g. Adlerian psychology, evolutionary biology, descriptive + inferential statistics)

🤠 Some not (e.g. my experiences dating across 6 continents, and serving 2,000+ clients)

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My Masterclass curriculum is organized around my "5Es" of dating. These are:

1️⃣  Empathize (understanding what women want, and how to show you've got it)

2️⃣ Embrace (building confidence in + showcasing the things that make you sexy)

3️⃣ Embody (putting your best forward to meet women online and in-person)

4️⃣ Engage (leading flirty, inspiring conversations that create romantic chemistry)

5️⃣ Execute (orchestrating great dates and building relationships on your terms)

Fun facts about me

🤘 I'm a Texan by way of California. My husband and I moved to Austin from San Francisco in 2020.

😻 My dog Dee Dee and my one-eyed cat Cedar are the lights of my life. That's Dee Dee in the photo below!

Blaine in a white jacket with colorful fringe, crouching, holding her dog Dee Dee

💪 I love physical activities like surfing, yoga, hiking, and Barry's Bootcamp.

🛫 Before coaching, I worked in the travel industry, and lived out of my suitcase abroad for 2 years.

🐙🌵 I'm obsessed with octopuses (no, I don't eat them!) and saguaro cacti (I grew up in Tucson, Arizona!)

🏅 I've been recognized as Dating Coach by Coach Foundation, one of the biggest names in the coaching industry.

❤️ Nothing brings me more joy than making my clients successful, and I'd love to work with you.

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