Photo of Blaine in a red dress, with her body turned away from from the camera, looking back into the lens smiling

Jumpstart Your Dating Life

Understand women, build confidence, and shortcut your way to the dating life you want — with me by your side.

4.86/5 (from 2,000+ students)

What guys are saying about Blaine

Never count on luck again

In my 12-week Jumpstart program, we'll work together 1x1 so you quickly:

🌶️ Discover what makes you sexually attractive so you feel confident flirting with women, even girls you thought were "out of your league."

❤️ Start dating women you’re genuinely excited about with a bullet-proof process you can follow (and lead!) from first encounter to relationship.

💪 Stop doubting yourself for good so you never get in your own way when it comes to women, dating, and relationships again!

What more clients are saying


Shortly after I finished your course, I started dating my wonderful girlfriend Barrie, and we've now been together about a year. I'm thrilled to be one of your (many) success stories.


Photo of Blaine in a red dress, facing the camera, smiling

It's time to change your trajectory

Especially if you feel exhausted from dating, or you question yourself around women you like because of negative past experiences...

I need to tell you something important!

Like tennis or driving, dating is a LEARNABLE SKILL.

You can can master it fast once you:

  1. Understand the organizing principles
  2. Learn to put your knowledge to work

Let me help!

‍It's not your fault you weren't born knowing how to date — in today's world, gender dynamics and masculinity can be confusing — but it is 100% your fault if you don't

Stop repeating the same broken patterns!

Leverage my experiences helping 2,000+ guys learn to attract women they're excited about, and land the partner you deserve.

What more clients are saying


Blaine teaches you to be yourself, and position yourself, in a way that you can attract and sustain a relationship with women you thought were out of your league. Thank you for everything, Blaine!


What's inside Jumpstart, my only 1x1 program

Jumpstart is an immersive 12-week program that combines:

  1. Comprehensive course curriculum 🍎
  2. On-demand 1x1 coaching 📲
  3. Dozens of bonus materials 🎉

Details are below!

Graphic for Blaine's Dating Masterclass, with photo of Blaine in white smiling at left

Part 1: My Dating Masterclass 👩🏫🍎

My Masterclass serves as a backbone for your dating transformation. It's helped 1,000+ guys from every background you can imagine learn to attract awesome women. You will quickly:

✔ Master dating psychology by learning what women want, how to show you’ve got it, how to uncover the qualities that make you sexy, how to stop turning women off, and more.

✔ Hone your dating skillset by discovering exactly how to meet women you like in-person and online, becoming a world-class flirt, and planning inspiring dates that lead to more!

Enjoy lifetime access to all Masterclass course materials including the video lessons, workbooks, and bonus materials to reinforce learnings. Full Masterclass details HERE!

Part 2: On-Demand 1x1 Coaching With Me 📲👋

We'll partner to get you out of the friend zone (or out of the "6/7 zone") and into relationships with women you're attracted to. This includes:

✔ Six live 1x1 Zoom coaching sessions we'll use to define your goals, solve your deepest dating challenges, punctuate your learnings, and benchmark your progress.

✔ Unlimited 1x1 email access to me throughout the program so you have on-demand answers to questions like "what should I text her?" or "how do I handle this situation?" and everything in between.

✔ Full 1x1 dating app profile makeover so you start consistently matching with women you're excited about on apps like Hinge, Bumble, and The League.

✔Additional ongoing support is available as needed. My #1 priority is making you successful, and I don't leave clients hanging!

Graphic with text "1x1 Coaching With Blaine" at the left, and a photo of Blaine in red at right
Graphic with text "Blaine's Exclusive Bonuses" at the right, and a photo of Blaine jumping with arms raised, smiling, at left

Part 3: Exclusive Bonuses 🔓🎉

You also get special resources to cement your forthcoming dating success:

✔ Lifetime access to my Texting OS so you send the right message every time, from match to relationship and beyond, with zero stress or anxiety.

✔ Lifetime access to the DBB Community to connect with and learn from other students and alums. Don't worry, this is 100% private and anonymous if you prefer.

✔ Live group Q&A sessions with me on topics upvoted by the DBB Community. Again, this is 100% private and anonymous if you prefer.

What more clients are saying


I continue to appreciate your help to make it possible for me to meet people like her!


Blaine in a red dress, leaning over a table, smiling

I'm Blaine, by the way!

I'm Blaine, I'm a dating coach for men, and I can't wait to help you transform your dating life.

My coaching career began when I was an undergraduate at the University of Arizona 🎓

My guy friends would ask me for advice about dating my sorority sisters 😏

I've helped 2,000+ guys learn to attract women they're excited about through my coaching programs in the years since!

My teachings are rooted in academic psychology, as well as my YEARS of experience coaching men from 20+ countries and every background you can imagine.

I can’t wait to connect with you about my only 1x1 coaching program, Jumpstart Your Dating Life!

What more clients are saying


I had given up on dating. Then I met Blaine… You BET this works!


Frequently asked questions

1. Who is Jumpstart Your Dating Life for?

My 1x1 Jumpstart program is for guys who are ready to stop doubting themselves with girls, feel sexually attractive, and date the women they’re excited about on their own terms.

Because it’s fully personalized to you, Jumpstart can be a fit whether you are:

  • 👶 Relatively new or inexperienced with dating and you’re finally feeling ready to dive in and attract women you like without a lengthy DIY, trial-and-error struggle.
  • 👨 Experienced with dating, but not getting the results you want because it feels like "9s" and "10s" aren’t interested in you, or women don’t seem to see you as a romantic partner generally, and you want more fun and options dating.

Many of my clients fall into two categories:

  1. 🧑‍🔬 The engineer, who may or may not be an actual engineer. This is you if you have a solid career and fulfilling personal life, and it's time for dating to catch up.
  2. 👨‍👧‍👦 The divorcé. This is you if you weren't expecting to be single again, and could use a refresher on dating generally (and dating in the digital age specifically) now that you're back on the market.

Though I've worked with guys from just about every background you can think of. My clients are short, tall, white, black, Asian, Indian, American, European, rich, blue collar, outgoing, shy, handsome, "ugly", athletic, disabled, thin, fit, dad-bod, overweight, you name it 😃🌐

One callout...

Jumpstart is designed for professionally successful men who can comfortably make a four-figure financial investment in themselves.

If you're not there yet, no sweat. Check out my Masterclass or my Texting Operating System instead.

2. Who is Jumpstart Your Dating Life *NOT* for?

Great question! There are three types of guys I typically can't help:

  1. Guys who believe they are beyond help. If you've convinced yourself that you're a lost cause when it comes to women and dating, I probably can't convince you otherwise. This is because dating is heavily psychological, and a key to success is believing you can succeed. This isn’t to say you need much self-confidence coming in — my job is to help you develop that! — but if you're beginning from a place of TOTAL self-doubt, therapy will probably be more effective than coaching.
  2. Guys who drown in the theory. Highly analytical over-thinkers need not worry! I take a systems-oriented approach to dating that will help you simplify decisions and break out of analysis paralysis. However, if you're SO preoccupied with edge cases and theory that you won't implement any of the simple, practical, and relatively universal advice I share, you probably won't see results.
  3. Guys who are seeking a pen pal. If deep down what you really need is a friend to talk to (as opposed to a dating coach to get your rear in gear), Jumpstart isn’t the right fit for you. There are less expensive ways to find companionship, and while I’d like to help you, I’d rather work with guys who truly want results.

If any of these sounds like you, I genuinely wish you the best, but please don’t apply to work with me 1x1 ❤️

3. How exactly does THIS work?

Great question!

Before you sign up, we’ll typically have a brief 1x1 Zoom consultation. I offer this consultation because Jumpstart is a meaningful investment, and it’s important that:

  • You get a chance to meet me, and feel confident that I will help you achieve your dating and personal goals 🤝
  • I get a chance to meet you, and feel confident you will get good ROI on your investment in working with me 📈

If we both feel like working together is a fit, you’ll sign up, and receive immediate access to my recorded curriculum. These are my Texting OS, and (2) my Dating Masterclass. I encourage you to dive into these right away, because the content will lay a foundation and give us a shared vocabulary for everything we'll work together on 1x1.

We’ll also schedule your first of our 1x1 Zoom coaching sessions. During our first session, I’ll get to know you more deeply, and I’ll help you set a few personal goals for the next 12 weeks. We'll typically schedule your next three live 1x1 sessions at four-week intervals. We’ll use these sessions to check in on progress, work through challenges, and keep you motivated. You can use your remaining two 1x1 Zoom coaching sessions anytime in the next 12 months.

We’ll also stay in close contact via email as you have questions in between our live Zoom sessions. Email coaching is perfect for chatting through day-to-day challenges in your dating life, like how to respond to tricky messages, how to perfect your dating app profiles, and anything else you want to talk about.

We can structure your 12-week program as you see fit. Some of my clients prefer an open-ended program, and use me mostly as needs arise ad hoc. Others prefer to focus on a couple of specific areas, and use me for focused feedback, accountability, and encouragement against their goals. I can do both, so what style we pursue is 100% your choice!

4. Is the 1x1 coaching really unlimited?

Yes, but if you're asking, please read on 😉

Jumpstart Your Dating Life includes three types of 1x1 coaching:

  1. 📹 Live Zoom coaching. We'll have six live 1x1 Zoom coaching sessions to set goals, discuss challenges and opportunities in-depth, and deepen your learnings. These sessions are 50 minutes in length.
  2. 📲 Ongoing async coaching. You get 1x1 email access to me throughout the 12-week program. Email coaching is helpful because it means we don't have to experience the hassle of scheduling a call every time you need a question answered.
  3. 💖 Full 1x1 dating app profile makeover. We'll typically do this iteratively together via email, so we can methodically look at all of the pieces of your profile, and weave them together into the perfect, cohesive package.

Notes on the live video coaching 👩‍🏫

I deliberately offer six live sessions during the 12-week program, and recommend we meet at the following cadence:

  • Session 1: ASAP after signup
  • Session 2: at the 4-week mark
  • Session 3: at the 8-week mark
  • Session 4: at the 12-week mark
  • Sessions 5 + 6: whenever you need them in the following 12 months

This is because through years of coaching, I’ve observed that clients get steeply diminishing returns to more than one live 1x1 coaching session a month, but it's hard to make progress against a specific goal with less than one live 1x1 coaching session a month.

Basically, we'll use our 1x1 Zoom sessions to punctuate chapters in your personal development, not catch up on day-to-day events. We have email for that!

Notes on the async email coaching 📝

This is “unlimited” with the caveats that:

  1. I’m not on my phone 24/7. I typically respond to emails promptly, and virtually always within 48 hours unless there’s an important reason I can’t (e.g. travel, no service, holiday, etc) but I don’t offer a more specific service-level agreement because, well, life happens!
  2. I can’t read novel-length messages. After working with 2,000+ guys, I’ve learned that 100+ words of context around a single dating question is seldom useful. Additionally, the same impulse that drives guys to send long-ass emails tends to be at the heart of their dating woes... Being blunt, learning to (1) stop sweating every detail, (2) accept that your situation isn’t always unique, and (3) communicate crisply will become an asset in every aspect of your life, not just dating!

This isn’t to say you can never send me a 100+ word email. It’s just to say that you will reap enormous benefits from learning to trim the fat. And yeah, I’m aware of the irony that this FAQ response is 400 words long. Do as I say, not as I do 😜

5. Why did you make Jumpstart Your Dating Life?

I exclusively offered live 1x1 coaching when I started coaching. As demand for my services grew, I gravitated away from 1x1 coaching toward courses, which let me reach and serve more clients (this is a euphemism for "grow my business" 😉)

The shift toward courses made sense for me professionally, but it meant that I didn’t get to know most of the guys working with me very well 😕

It also meant that I was turning away many awesome prospective clients who wanted a more-personalized experience than I could deliver with courses.

So, I created Jumpstart Your Dating Life to work 1x1 with guys like you!

Specifically, Jumpstart is designed to help motivated guys who want a personalized, premium, and productive coaching experience get what they want in their dating lives ❤️🙋

6. Why should I listen to you?

My most important credentials are my clients' results.

I've helped 2,000+ guys learn to attract women they're excited about through my courses and coaching programs. More than 95% report they'd recommend working with me to a friend. In addition to the testimonials scattered throughout this page, you can explore more of my clients' stories on my Testimonials page, and my new Wall of Love ❤️

Additionally, literally MILLIONS of guys seek out my free tips every month across my Instagram, my TikTok, and my YouTube, and I've been featured in the New York Times, NYPost, Forbes, Insider, and more 📰

7. How much does Jumpstart Your Dating Life cost?

If you're working 1x1 with me, the total cost of Jumpstart is your choice of either:

  • One lump payment of $6,495 USD
  • Three monthly payments of $2,395 USD

If you're working 1x1 with my equally talented colleague Tara, the total cost of Jumpstart is your choice of either:

  • One lump payment of $3,985 USD
  • Three monthly payments of $1,485 USD

To contextualize this, Jumpstart is the coaching equivalent of a Tesla Model S or X. It’s not a Lamborghini or a Ferrari, where you’re blowing a bag on something exotic. It's just a premium experience, priced commensurate to value, that’s specifically for guys who’ve achieved some success professionally, and can comfortably invest in themselves now that they want to focus on personal development and dating.

I've invested 10,000+ hours into developing and testing the materials we'll cover (Jumpstart includes every resource I’ve ever created, as well as every learning I've picked up through helping 2,000+ guys over the years!) plus it includes exclusive 1x1 access to me or Tara for 12 weeks.

Basically, we're REALLY freaking good at helping men learn to attract attractive women. If you decide to give Jumpstart a chance, you’ll see why it's worth it 🤠

If this isn’t in your budget, no sweat! Check out my Masterclass, my Texting OS, and my free resources.

Ah, one more note...

The total cost with the monthly payments is higher than with the lump payment. This is because I pay more in transaction fees with the monthly payments, and there's extra work + risk for me if your payments bounce.

I just wanted to make this crystal clear before you make a decision ❤️

8. What makes this different from your Masterclass?

Excellent question!

As of Summer 2023, I offer 3 programs: (1) my Texting Operating System, (2) my Dating Masterclass, and (3) Jumpstart Your Dating Life.

1️⃣ My Texting Operating System is a shorter, 100% self-serve course on texting. It will help you stop second guessing yourself when you text women; start sending fun, flirty messages that make girls want more; and feel confident you're saying the right thing every time. If you specifically need help with messaging on dating apps and texting, it's the perfect option (and it's included in Jumpstart!)

2️⃣ My Masterclass is an end-to-end course that will help you transform your dating life fast. It includes five video modules that cover EVERYTHING you need to know to stop feeling awkward or unsure of yourself around women, and start attracting women you're excited about. My Masterclass also includes a 1x1 online dating profile makeover (though this is more limited than the full, collaborative makeover you'll get via Jumpstart), live group coaching, and access to a student Discord community. If a more self-directed, go-at-your-own-pace program at a lower price is intriguing, my Masterclass is the perfect option.

3️⃣ Jumpstart includes everything with my Masterclass, plus in-depth 1x1 coaching throughout. Like my Masterclass, Jumpstart will help you feel sexually attractive, date women you’re excited about, and stop doubting yourself — just with full access to my personalized 1x1 help. Jumpstart is a larger investment because we’ll work closely together over the course of 12 weeks. It's the premium experience (e.g. Jumpstart = Tesla Model S, Masterclass = Tesla Model 3 🚘)

My Masterclass and Jumpstart cover the same material, and you can expect great results with either program. The key difference is just the level of depth and personalization:

  • Want a streamlined, lower-cost, DIY experience? Go with my Masterclass.
  • Want a deeper, personalized experience with 1x1 help from a coach? Go with Jumpstart.

I know this is the "wrong" thing to say from a business perspective, but if you’re on the fence between my Masterclass and Jumpstart Your Dating Life, start with my Masterclass.

You may find everything you need there (and save money!) and if you decide you'd prefer 1x1 coaching later, you can apply your Masterclass investment to the price of Jumpstart. Just email me, and we’ll get it sorted out ❤️

9. How much time should I be able to commit?

Great question!

I'd recommend budgeting 5 hours a week over the 12 week program to get the best results from Jumpstart ⏳📈

You don’t have to make time every day, but you should be able to commit several hours over the course of a week.

To illustrate this:

  • It’s A-OK if you have a weekend trip (or multiple weekend trips!) planned during the 12-week program. It won’t diminish your experience, or interfere with your ability to get results.
  • If you’re going through an insanely busy time at work, and expect there will be consecutive weeks where you can’t give the program any attention, wait to sign up until you have more free time.

Put more simply:

  • Have enough time to date today? If you’re actively going on dates, swiping on apps, or just spending hours a week thinking about girls, you have enough time for this 🙌
  • Don’t have enough time for dating? If you’ve recently had to cancel dates because of work or personal commitments, or you’ve let the ball drop in a relationship because you’ve been too busy, wait ❤️

Two last notes here:

  • The email coaching OFFICIALLY lasts 12 weeks. I generally don't mind answering crisp, thoughtful questions after the 12 week mark if you're respectful of my time. But if you're sending me daily long-ass rambling emails, I'm cutting you off on day 84 😂
  • You have LIFETIME access to program materials like my Texting OS, Masterclass, our coaching session recordings, and bonus materials, so you can always review these after your 12-week session ends.
10. How long will it take to see results?

How soon you will see results depends on a few things:

  1. The scope of what you want to accomplish. If you’re struggling with texting, you will see results literally day 1 after you’ve watched my Texting OS. If you’re struggling to build self-confidence, it may take weeks of focused effort to observe real improvements. Realistically, if you’re considering investing multiple thousands of dollars into working with me 1x1, you probably have deeper challenges to overcome than just texting, so while I'd expect you to have plenty of immediate "aha!" moments during the program, it may take weeks or even months, not hours or days, to see true and complete transformations in your dating life. The good news is that >90% of my clients report seeing meaningful and tangible results from working with me within 30 days. It just may take longer to see EVERY result you're looking for 📈
  2. How hard you work. Stepping back, my program isn’t magic, and dating isn’t unique vs any other skill you could learn. The more effort you invest, the better the results you’ll get. As the saying goes, you can’t cheat the grind. Basically, the same way you will get pretty damn good at tennis by playing for an hour a day with a pro for a month, you will get pretty damn good at dating by devoting an hour a day to my program for a month 🎾
  3. How well you follow directions. Having served 2,000+ clients, I’ve observed that (A) there is a MASSIVE difference in how well some guys follow directions vs others, and (B) this difference is directly proportional to the results guys get from my coaching programs. Basically, if you're good at following instructions (e.g. school wasn’t hard when you applied yourself), you can expect to see results from working with me, fast. If you are bad at following instructions (e.g. in school or job settings, sometimes it feels like no matter how hard you work, you just don’t understand things...) candidly you may not see results from Jumpstart, and I wouldn't want you to make a bad investment ❤️
11. What’s your refund policy?

Jumpstart is a meaningful investment, and I want you to feel comfortable and secure if you decide to work with me, so I offer the following refund policy and guarantee.

Seal-like graphic designed to represent Blaine's money-back guarantee

Decide within 5 days of enrolling in Jumpstart that you don't want to proceed?

Just email me, and I will give you a full refund, as long as you meet the following conditions:

  1. You've not started my Texting OS course. You get access to my Texting OS with your Jumpstart purchase, and because it's relatively quick and unambiguously effective (I don't encourage it, but you can literally copy and paste the messages, and get amazing results...) I don't offer refunds when it's purchased on its own. Therefore, if you request a refund for Jumpstart and you've started watching my Texting OS, I will deduct the $149 USD price of my Texting OS from your Jumpstart refund.
  2. You've not started my Masterclass. This is to prevent bad apples (probably not you!) from signing up, watching most of my Masterclass, then requesting a refund. If you've begun my Masterclass, you can have the same pro-rated refund for the portion of the program you've watched (e.g. if you've watched 20% --> I'll refund you 80% of the Masterclass's $1,295 USD value) according to my course hosting service's records.
  3. We've not had our first live 1x1 coaching session. If we've had our first live 1x1 coaching session, I'll deduct $500 USD from your refund for my time. Basically, let's make sure our communication styles mesh during our consultation call before you sign up, not after!
  4. I can't give refunds after >5 days under any circumstances. This is because I'm a small business owner, and I deploy revenue from my sales for things like content production, new projects, my assistant's salary, and my mortgage basically as soon as it comes in.

I hope this gives you comfort and security in your decision to invest in working with me ❤️

One last thought here...

If you're already thinking about asking for a refund (maybe you're super skeptical, or the investment is a stretch for you financially, or you often don't find value in things you purchase...) please don't sign up for Jumpstart.

Basically, I want to work with guys who have an "I'm all in, let's do this!" mindset, not guys who have a "I'm dubious, let me keep one leg out" mindset.

12. Can I speak with a previous client for a reference?


First, apply for Jumpstart Your Dating Life at the bottom of this page. If I think the program is a good fit for you, we’ll connect 1x1 via Zoom so I can answer questions for you, and we can get to know each other.

Then, if you’d like to connect with a past client before making your decision, I’d be glad to put you in touch with one 🤝

13. OK fine, what's next?

Because Jumpstart Your Dating Life is a meaningful investment, and my coaching capacity is limited, let's have a quick 1x1 consultation before you sign up!

Tap the button below to apply (it takes like 60 seconds), and I’ll follow up with you via email as soon as I’ve had a chance to review your application ❤️📨

What more clients are saying

- KV
- KV

It was purely based on your advice that my dating life has improved. My favorite part was the Thirsting and Thriving examples. It showed me exactly what and where I was going wrong.

- KV

Let's get your dating life unstuck.

4.86/5 (from 2,000+ students)

Don't worry, it's 100% private, and only takes about 60 seconds 👇

I’ll also add you to my email list if you're not on it already. 100% privacy, no spam or b.s.

Thank you! Your submission has been received!
Oops! Something went wrong while submitting the form.