How to Send the Right Message Every Time

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Never send the WRONG message again. Discover the EXACT texts to go from initial meeting or match to relationship, with zero stress or anxiety!


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You Aren't Alone, Texting Is Confusing

Women communicate differently from men, and your brain didn't evolve to communicate in 160 character messages.

It's not surprising that 90% of guys hate texting!

If you’re one of those guys who will match with an attractive woman, but then you're not sure what to say...

Or you don't want to say something awkward, weird, or creepy when you're trying to plan a date...

You need to hear what I’m about to tell you!

Messaging women doesn't HAVE to be difficult.


If you follow a few simple-but-critical rules, texting can actually become an ASSET in your dating life.

You can start sending messages that make women EXCITED to flirt and chat with YOU!


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It was purely based on your advice that my dating life has improved. My favorite part was the Thirsting and Thriving examples. It showed me exactly what and where I was going wrong.


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Texting Can Be Fun, Flirty, and Sexy For Women

When you're sending the RIGHT messages, you can often create massive chemistry inside any woman within seconds.

At the least, you can consistently land the date!

But the problem is that most guys don’t know WHEN or WHAT to message in the most important situations 😬

They send bad messages, they get ghosted, and they blame themselves.

This cycle sucks, and it's silly!

Contrary to popular belief, texting doesn't HAVE to be hard, and you don’t even need to be witty in order to send the RIGHT message every time.


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You have seriously changed my life. I started dating my dream girl 2 weeks ago, and we made our relationship official today!


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Messaging Women Doesn't Have To Feel Like Roulette!

I’m Blaine, and I’m the #1 dating coach for men.

I’ve spent YEARS helping 3,000+ guys attract women they’re excited about.

I just finished compiling every texting secret, trick, and shortcut I’ve learned along the way into my new Texting Operating System (aka Texting OS) video course.

It will help you immediately:

Stop second guessing yourself when you communicate with women on apps like Hinge.

💘 Start sending fun, flirty messages that make girls want more, and land you dates.

Feel confident you're saying the right thing no matter what stage of your relationship.

My Texting OS covers simple and effective messaging strategies so you NEVER send a woman the wrong text again.

Better yet...

It includes 100+ proven messages I've A/B tested with 3,000+ clients.

Start sending the right message EVERY TIME with my Texting OS!


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Shortly after I finished your course, I started dating my wonderful girlfriend Barrie, and we've now been together about a year. I'm thrilled to be one of your (many) success stories.


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Don't Be The Guy Who Gets Ghosted

You’ve probably been in countless situations where you WISH you could resend a message to a woman.

You were nervous, and you said something that FELT right at the time...

Then, just silence 🥶

Or you received the dreaded "Hey, you're great, but..." reply yet AGAIN.

You will regret these moments, and beat yourself up over them!

I don’t want it happening to you anymore.

Once you learn to send the RIGHT message, you will see immediate results in your dating life.

And by results, I mean rock-solid confidence texting women, attractive women flirting with you on apps like Hinge, and jealous looks in the eyes of your single FRIENDS who are still getting ghosted.

And it all boils down to the simple strategies that I’ll teach you in my Texting OS.

Want to stop feeling anxious and afraid when you message a girl?

Ready to stop rolling the dice every time you start typing a texting?

Tap below to join me!


How The Texting Operating System Works

🎬 My Texting OS is an 8-module video course that covers EVERY message you need to send to go from initial match or meeting to relationship, with ZERO stress or anxiety.

Details are below!

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Module 1: 
Texting Strategy

✔ Why most guys fail at texting (and why you can succeed)

✔ How we'll use my "logistics" strategy to land you more dates

✔ Tips to maximize your results with the course, and with women!

Module 2:
Turn Matches Into Dates

✔ Break the ice so women become excited and eager to chat with you

✔ Consistently transition on-app conversations to phone numbers and dates

✔ Stir your matches' excitement to meet you in-person!

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Module 3:
Turn In-Person Meetings Into Dates

✔ Exactly what to text, and when, after you first meet in-person

✔ How to tee up a date so she says "YES!" and doesn't ghost

✔ Key mistakes to avoid — so many guys screw these up!

Module 4:
Landing The Second Date

✔ Proven post-date texts, whether your first date was phenomenal or just OK

✔ The perfect message to land a second date, even if you're unsure where you stand

✔ How to avoid looking needy as you navigate the relationship forward

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Module 5:
Maintaining Momentum

✔ Dozens of texts that deepen your connections with women

✔ When, and how, to share photos without coming on too strong

✔ How to STOP playing texting games, and move the conversation to a call or date

Module 6:
Spicing Things Up

✔ Messages to playfully tease her via text, and leave her wanting more

✔ What to say to escalate romantic tension and move things to the bedroom

✔ How to turn her on without texting something you might regret!

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Module 7:
When Things Go Awry

✔ What to say if a woman starts pulling back (this is so important!)

✔ Proven messages to re-engage her if she ghosts

✔ The BEST replies if she tries to bail on a date you've planned

Module 8:
Relighting A Flame

✔ The RIGHT way open conversation with a woman you've not spoken to in years

✔ Texts to send if things fizzled with a fling, and you want to re-engage

✔ What to say to reboot a relationship with an ex who's still on your mind

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Frequently Asked Questions

1. Who is YOUR TEXTING OS for?

My Texting Operating System (aka Texting OS) is for guys who want to become better texters!

😷 Sick of saying the wrong thing?

My Texting OS is for you! You'll obtain a consistent, repeatable, and effective process to send the right message every time (plus 100+ messages you can literally copy!)

😓 Tired of getting ghosted?

My Texting OS is for you, too! You'll learn how to never send the wrong message again when you're communicating with a woman you've matched with online, or met in-person.

😊 Want to escalate things, and create chemistry?

My Texting OS is also for you! You'll learn flirty texts that turn the heat up, and lead to physical fun, as well as WHEN it is (and isn't) appropriate to send messages like this.

🥳 Consistently land dates with your matches already?

My Texting OS isn’t for you. There are probably things you could learn from this course, but it’s not designed for guys who already feel confident messaging women.

😛 Want to "hook up with" as many girls as possible?

My Texting OS probably isn’t for you, either. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy physicality with women, and your Texting OS learnings will probably lead you to more physical fun, but this course isn’t DESIGNED to help you maximize hookups.

2. How Does it work? what's included?

My Texting Operating System is an online video course that consists of 8 recorded video modules, totaling about 2 hours in length.

It covers the conversation frameworks (and exact language) you need to go from initial match or meeting, all the way through to relationship, and never send the wrong message to a woman you're texting again 💪

My Texting OS includes 100+ messages you can copy word for word.

This will help you flawlessly initiate dates, physicality, and more. You also get access to the PDFs of the slides I present from in the recordings as part of the course.

Your purchase of my Texting OS includes lifetime access.

The lessons are pre-recorded, and 100% self-serve, meaning you can watch and re-watch them anytime after you sign up, from your computer or phone!

Immediately after as you sign up, you'll receive access to my student site where the recordings are are hosted.

The process of signing up and diving into the course is usually seamless, but if you have trouble logging in after purchase, just email me, and I'll help you get sorted out 😊

My Texting OS does not include 1x1 coaching.

This is for two reasons.

1. I made my Texting OS to give you a potent resource to meaningfully improve your dating life at a dramatically lower price than my 1x1 coaching offerings.

2. The messages you need to send to successfully create romantic chemistry and relationships with women are essentially the same, no matter who YOU are, or who you're texting WITH.

Still, my Texting OS is designed to be comprehensive with respect to texting!

So if you discover there's a texting topic NOT covered in my Texting OS that you have questions about, email me, and I'll update the course to cover it.

Exclusively looking for personalized dating advice?

Check out my Dating Masterclass, which includes a multitude of opportunities to get personalized feedback, or my 1x1 Jumpstart Program, where you can work 1x1 with me or another coach on my team!

3. WHY DID YOU mAKE the texting os?

I made my Texting Operating System for a few reasons:

First, texting is an essential part of dating today.

Text is the primary (and often the only) medium through which you will communicate with women you meet today.

If you're a bad texter, you have virtually 0 shot at attracting an awesome partner in today's competitive dating market, no matter how attractive you are.

Second, meeting women is hard enough.

You shouldn't have to wonder, "Should I text her this?" or "How should I reply?" once you've finally met or matched with someone you like.

Third, I wanted to help YOU.

Until now, my only programs that covered texting were my Dating Masterclass ($1,295 USD) and my 1x1 Jumpstart Program ($3,985+ USD).

These programs are AWESOME, and deliver a ton of value to my clients, but they're not in everyone's budget.

I don't want you to ever worry, "Is this the right message?" or "What should I say now?" again, even if you don't have four figures to invest in your dating life today.


My Texting Operating System kicks butt whether you date online or not.

It covers every message you need to send, from the first time you interact with a woman (whether that's via an app like Hinge, or you met in-person) to entering an exclusive relationship with her, and even messages for beyond!

If you date online, my Texting OS will help you land dates with your matches.

It will help with plenty more than that, too (e.g. what to text after a date, how to spice things up via text, and more 🤠)

Want to improve your MATCHES on apps like Hinge and Bumble?

That's outside the scope of my Texting OS, but don't worry! Just check out my Online Dating OS.

5. Why DOES IT COST $149?

The #1 reason my Texting OS costs $149 is because it's worth it!

I've put literally 10,000 hours into developing and testing the material for this program. I'm confident you'll agree it kicks ass if you decide to give it a shot 🤠

Stepping back here...

Until 2022, all of my programs included 1x1 coaching.

This was fine when I only had a handful of clients, but it became untenable as my audience, and the number of guys who wanted to work with me, expanded.

Offering self-serve courses like my Texting OS enables me to give you an AWESOME resource, that will meaningfully change your trajectory, for about the cost of a dinner date!

6. Why should I listen to you?

It's true that MILLIONS of men consume my free dating advice across my Instagram, my TikTok, and my YouTube.

My tips have also been featured in publications like the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, New York Post, and Forbes.

Heck, Mark Cuban was so impressed with my advice that he offered me a deal when I went on Shark Tank 🦈


My most IMPORTANT credential is my clients' results.

Over years of coaching, I've helped 3,000+ students learn to attract women they're excited about.

More than 95% report they'd recommend working with me to a friend 🤝

In addition to the client stories scattered throughout this page, you can find 100+ more testimonials on my Reviews page, and my new Wall of Love.


My Texting OS is about 2 hours in total recorded length.

The course is broken into 8 distinct modules between 5 and 25 minutes in length each 🎬

You can watch the modules at your own pace, and you get lifetime access to the recordings, so you can view (and review) them whenever you please!


Let's be clear about something...

Even with my Texting OS, you may still get ghosted sometimes.

This is because literally NO ONE — not Leonardo DiCaprio, not Derek Jeter, not Drake — is successful with women 100% of the time.

Even if you send the perfect message, a woman might not be interested in you for any one of 100+ reasons.

→ For example, maybe she decided to get back with her ex right after you texted.

→ Or, maybe she isn't interested in you anymore after taking a closer look at your profile!

Basically, my Texting OS will eliminate messaging as a risk factor in your dating life, but it can't unwind something weird you did on a date, or change your appearance, etc 😜

With that in mind…

🪖 My Texting OS will help you AVOID and MINIMIZE ghosting.

We take a two-pronged approach:

1. My Texting OS teaches you to send the BEST POSSIBLE message every time, based on THOUSANDS of messages I've A/B tested with clients over YEARS of coaching.

2. My Texting OS teaches you how to HANDLE ghosting and rejection if and when it happens, so you can quickly dust the dirt off your shoulders, and bounce back.

If that sounds OK, get your butt enrolled already!

If that sounds terrifying (e.g. your mindset is, "I can NEVER handle getting ghosted again 😩”) I wish you good luck, but my Texting OS isn't for you. Dating may not be for you either!

9. But Aren't there thousands of other guys sending these messages?

Thankfully that's not a problem for two reasons.

1. You can, and should, make these messages your own.

The scripts I share in my Texting OS are all easy-to-use templates that you can, and should, customize based on your voice and situation.

As we cover in the course, the messages will be most effective if you put them into your own words, and I make it simple to do that!

2. There are no gimmicks here.

Unlike the goofy text scripts that pickup artists peddle online, the messages included in my Texting OS are pragmatic, durable, and on-brand for every situation you encounter in your dating life.

Even if the same woman received them multiple times from multiple men, she wouldn't mind (or even notice!)

10. How long will it take to see results?

You will see results immediately once you begin using your learnings from my Texting OS!

One callout though...

Being good at TEXTING ≠ being good at DATING.

For example, if you're awkward or insecure on first dates, no amount of texting help will get you second dates 😬

If your obstacles with women extend far beyond texting, my Texting OS may still help, but I'd recommend checking out my Dating Masterclass instead. It includes my Texting OS!

11. What’s your refund policy?

I'm so confident you'll love my Texting OS that I'm proud to offer the following money-back guarantee...

The first Texting OS module is on me!

Feel free to sign up, and watch the first lesson. If you decide within 48 hours that you don't want to continue with the course for ANY reason...

Simply email me for a 100% hassle-free refund.

I hope this gives you peace of mind when deciding to check out my Texting OS ❤️

To prevent abuse, my only conditions are that you only watch the first module, and that you request your refund within 48 hours of signup.

I'm a small business owner, so I'm unable to offer refunds after 48 hours (or if you've watched >1 course module) for any reason. Thanks for understanding!

12. What if i have another question?

Email me at!

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My No Questions Asked, Money-Back Guarantee

Talking to women is intimidating enough.

I don't want you to feel any anxiety about trying out my Texting OS.

Enjoy the first lesson of my Texting OS on me!

If at any point in the next 48 hours you feel like you didn’t get enough value from the course...

Or that you’re not learning what you need to be learning in order to message women...

Simply email me, and I'll give you a prompt and hassle-free 100% full refund ❤️

To prevent abuse, my only conditions are that you only watch the first module, and that you request your refund within 48 hours of signup.

Sound reasonable?

Go ahead and click on the checkout button below, and start sending the right message every time!


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Blaine teaches you to be yourself, and position yourself, in a way that you can attract and sustain a relationship with women you thought were out of your league. Thank you for everything, Blaine!



Never send the wrong message again

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4.86/5 (from 3,000+ clients)