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Send the right message every time

The exact texts to go from match to relationship, with zero stress or anxiety.

4.86/5 (from 2,000+ students)

What guys are saying about Blaine

Texting shouldn't feel like roulette

My new Texting Operating System (aka Texting OS) course will help you immediately:

  • ❌ Stop second guessing yourself when you communicate with women
  • 💘 Start sending fun, flirty messages that make her want more
  • ✅ Feel confident you're saying the right thing, every time

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I had given up on dating. Then I met Blaine… You BET this works!


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You deserve better chemistry with women

Women communicate differently from men, so it's not your fault you weren't born a texting pro.

It is your fault if you don't do something about it now, though...

Take action, and leverage 100+ proven messages I've A/B tested with 2,000+ clients.

Start sending the right message to women today!

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Blaine teaches you to be yourself, and position yourself, in a way that you can attract and sustain a relationship with women you thought were out of your league. Thank you for everything, Blaine!


Here's everything inside

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Texting Strategy 🎯

✔ Why most guys fail at texting (and why you can succeed)

✔ How we'll use my "logistics" strategy to land you more dates

✔ Tips to maximize your results from the course


Turn Matches Into Dates 📲

✔ Break the ice so she's eager to respond to you

✔ Consistently transition on-app conversations to phone numbers and dates

✔ Make her excited to meet you in-person!

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Turn In-Person Meetings Into Dates 👋

✔ Exactly what to text, and when, after you first meet

✔ How to tee up a date so she says "YES!"

✔ Key mistakes to avoid — most guys screw these up!


Landing The Second Date 🗓️

✔ Precisely when, and what, to text after a first date

✔ The perfect message to land a second date

✔ How to avoid looking needy

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Maintaining Momentum 🚴

✔ Dozens of texts that deepen your connection

✔ When, and how, to share photos without coming on too strong

✔ How to STOP texting, and get on a call or date


Spicing Things Up 🌶️

✔ Messages to playfully tease her via text, and leave her wanting more

✔ What to say to escalate romantic tension and move things to the bedroom

✔ Learn to turn her on without texting something you might regret

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When Things Go Awry 😅

✔ What to say if a woman starts pulling back

✔ Proven messages to re-engage her if she ghosts

✔ The BEST replies if she tries to bail on plans


Relighting A Flame 🕯️

✔ The RIGHT way open conversation with a woman you've not spoken with in years

✔ Texts to send if things fizzled with a fling

✔ What to say to reboot a relationship with an ex

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What more clients are saying


I continue to appreciate your help to make it possible for me to meet people like her!


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It's great to meet you, by the way!

Hi! I'm Blaine, I'm a dating coach for men, and I can't wait to help you improve your texting skills.

My coaching career began when I was an undergraduate at the University of Arizona 🎓

My guy friends would ask me for advice about dating my sorority sisters 😏

I've helped 2,000+ guys transform their dating lives through my coaching programs since then.

My teachings are rooted in both academic psychology, and my years of experience helping clients from 20+ countries land awesome partners!

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You have seriously changed my life. I started dating my dream girl 2 weeks ago, and we made our relationship official today!


Frequently asked questions

1. Who is this course for?

My Texting Operating System (aka Texting OS) is for guys who want to become better texters 🤠📲

Specifically, if you want to never worry about what to message a woman again, and land more dates (and second dates, and relationships, physical fun...) with women you meet or match with, it's the perfect resource for you.

Often fail to convert matches to dates, or feel confused about leading a text conversation with a woman?

My Texting OS is for you, and I'm excited for you to check it out!

Consistently land dates after matching with women online, or consider yourself a "good" texter already?

You can probably learn things from my Texting OS, too, but honestly I didn't design it with you in mind.

2. How does it work, and what's included?

My Texting Operating System is comprised of 8 video lessons that cover the conversation frameworks (and exact messages!) you need to send to go from meeting a woman either online or in-person, to a relationship ❤️

It includes 100+ messages you can copy word for word to flawlessly initiate dates, physicality, and more. You also get access to the PDFs of the slides I present from in the recordings as part of the course.

My Texting OS course is pre-recorded, and 100% self-serve meaning you can watch and re-watch the lessons anytime after you sign up from your computer or phone.

You get lifetime access. Immediately after as you sign up, you get access to my student site where the recordings are are hosted. The process of signing up and beginning the course is fairly seamless.

My Texting OS course is specifically focused on texting, and does not include coaching or Q&A. This is by design: I wanted to give you an awesome product that can meaningfully improve your dating life at a dramatically lower price than my services that include personalized attention.

  • Want more holistic help with your dating life? Check out my Dating Masterclass 👩‍🏫🍎
  • Want more holistic help, plus 1x1 coaching? Check out details on my Jumpstart program 🦘❤️‍🔥
3. Why did you make the Texting OS?

I made my Texting Operating System for a few reasons:

First, texting is an essential part of dating today. Text is the primary (and often the only) medium through which you will communicate with women you meet. If you're a bad texter, you have virtually 0 shot at attracting an awesome partner no matter how attractive you are.

Second, meeting women is hard enough. You shouldn't have to wonder, "Should I text her this?" or "How should I reply?" once you've met or matched with someone you like.

Third, I wanted to help YOU. My other services all involve personalized coaching, which means they're relatively expensive, especially for guys who are just starting out in their careers. I made my Texting OS course specifically to give more guys access to an awesome, relatively low-cost resource that can drive immediate tangible improvement in their dating lives!

4. Does it help with dating apps, or is it texting only?

My Texting Operating System covers every single message you need to send from the first time you interact with a woman (whether that's on a dating app, or in-person) to when you enter an exclusive relationship with her, and even some messages for beyond!

You can consider the terms "text" and "message" as interchangeable. This course covers every single short-form written message you need to send to start attracting women you like, whether you date online, or not.

5. Why should I listen to you?

My most important credentials are my clients' results.

I've helped 2,000+ guys learn to attract women they're excited about through my courses and coaching programs. More than 95% report they'd recommend working with me to a friend. In addition to the testimonials scattered throughout this page, you can check out more of my clients' stories on my Testimonials page, and my new Wall of Love ❤️

Additionally, my free dating advice is consumed by millions of men per month across my Instagram, my TikTok, and my YouTube, and has been featured in media outlets like the New York Times, NYPost, Forbes, Vice i-D, Cosmo, and more 📰

6. Why does it cost $149?

I developed my Texting Operating System to help more guys improve their relationships with women.

This course is self-serve which means I can offer it at a much lower price point than my programs that include 1x1 coaching and personalized attention!

For context, until August 2022, I offered just one coaching service, my Dating Masterclass. That's an end-to-end program that includes personalized attention, and it's the perfect solution if you want to stop feeling awkward or unsure of yourself with women, and start attracting women you're excited about. However, my Masterclass is also a four-figure investment, which means it's out of reach financially for many guys who need help...

The reason my Texting OS course costs $149 is because it's worth it. I've put literally 10,000 hours into developing and testing the material for this program. I'm confident you'll agree it kicks ass if you decide to give it a shot 🤠

7. What makes this different from your masterclass?

My Texting Operating System is a brand-new, self-serve program specifically on how to communicate with women via text or written message.

It covers every message you need to send from your initial meeting or match with a woman, to the time you're ready to enter an exclusive relationship, plus tons of messages to help you strengthen your romantic relationships (or spice things up) beyond 🔥

We do touch on the psychology behind the messages, but the program is pretty tactical, and it's designed specifically to help guys who are reasonably comfortable around women in-person get to overcome messaging hurdles to get to the next level in their dating lives.

My Masterclass is a more-holistic, end-to-end program that's perfect for guys who feel awkward or unsure of themselves around women, and want to start attracting women they like. It touches on virtually every aspect of dating, including women's psychology, the psychology of neediness and over-investment, plus tactical things like how to build a world-class dating app profile that stands out and women consistently swipe right on. It also includes some personalized attention for things like your dating app profiles.

If you try my Texting OS, and decide you want to take my full Dating Masterclass, that's great! You'll find a $149 discount for my Masterclass at the end of the Texting OS course 🤠

8. How long is this course?

My Texting Operating System course is 8 "modules," aka lessons, long.

The video modules vary in length, but the total runtime is about 2 hours in length.

You can watch the video modules at your own pace, and you get lifetime access to the recordings!

9. How long will it take to see results?

You can start seeing results immediately once you begin implementing learnings from my Texting Operating System.

What are you waiting for?! 😉

10. But aren't thousands of other guys sending these messages?

Thankfully that's not a problem for two reasons.

First off, the messages included in this course are all easy-to-use templates that you can, and should, customize to make your own. As we cover in the course, the messages will be most effective if you put them into your own voice, and I make it simple to do that!

Second off, unlike the goofy text scripts other dating coaches and pickup artists share online, the messages included in this course are pragmatic and durable enough that even if the same woman received them multiple times from different men, she won't mind.

There are no gimmicks here. Just simple, clear messages that are on-brand for every situation you encounter dating.

11. What’s your refund policy?

I don't offer refunds for my Texting OS for one simple reason...

It's proven to work!

The messages and strategies we cover have been tested, refined, and perfected through coaching 2,000+ guys, plus a decade of my own experiences and observations receiving tens of thousands of texts from men before I met my husband.

If you're the type of person who'd still consider asking for a refund after reading this FAQ (e.g. you're super skeptical, or $149 USD a stretch for you financially, or you're "already a good texter" and you're seeking something "advanced")...

My Texting OS is NOT for you! Please don't buy it.

I don't mean to sound harsh, but I want to focus my energy on the 99% of guys who take my programs, love what they learn, and get great results fast; not the 1% of guys who come up with excuses for why they can't be helped ❤️

12. OK fine, what's next?

Tap here to sign up already 😃

What more clients are saying

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It was purely based on your advice that my dating life has improved. My favorite part was the Thirsting and Thriving examples. It showed me exactly what and where I was going wrong.

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Stop sending the wrong message

4.86/5 (from 2,000+ students)