Asking a dating coach this question is a little like asking a barber if you need a haircut ✂️😜
I'm blessed to be in a place professionally where I regularly have to turn away prospective clients, so I can hopefully answer objectively...
The honest answer is, it depends!
Many guys can benefit from working with a dating coach, and some guys can’t.
Here's what to think about:
1. Do you believe you can grow?
As long as you believe you have opportunities to learn and improve your skills, you'll probably get great results from hiring me or another dating coach.
However, some guys believe they’re “beyond help,” and this attitude is self-fulfilling...
Basically, if you don't believe you can learn, you probably won't learn much from a coach.
2. Are you motivated?
The more motivated you are to make a change, and achieve a specific result in your dating life, the more likely you are to find value from coaching.
If you're merely curious, or you’re not sure what you want, you're less likely to achieve results, no matter how skilled your coach is.
3. Can you invest?
I mean "invest" in a holistic sense.
If you can comfortably invest time, energy, and money in improving yourself and your outcomes with women, a dating coach can be very helpful.
Working 90-hour weeks, and lack time and energy to invest in yourself?
You won’t get great results from coaching.
Struggling with the financial aspect of dating?
You'll see better results with women whether or not you hire a coach by focusing on your career.
This isn't to imply that women are gold diggers, btw.
Most are not! All women are attracted to success and financial stability, though.