MEET BLAINE
Hey you! It's great to meet you.
👋 I want to help you upgrade your dating life, fast.
My career as a dating coach for men began when I was an undergrad the University of Arizona.
(Can you spot 22-year-old me in this photo?!)
My guy friends would ask me for dating advice about my sorority sisters... 😏
What confused me was how the best guys often had the worst results with women.
I became obsessed with figuring out why.
Do women hate “nice” guys? Or is there another problem? 🤔


Over the decade since I graduated from college, I've learned that:
🗣️ Dating for men is a marketing game. Virtually identical guys have dramatically different outcomes with women based on their respective abilities to present themselves.
😬 Most guys don't know how to market themselves. These skills aren't taught in school, which may explain why so many intelligent and thoughtful men are bad at dating.
🤓 You can learn to attract women you're excited about. You just need to master a few skills. I'd love to teach you.
My approach revolves around my "5Es" of dating 🖐️
I developed the 5Es through helping literally thousands of guys across the globe land partners they're excited about. The 5Es are:
- Empathize (understanding what women want, and showing them you've got it)
- Embrace (building confidence in + showcasing the things that make you attractive)
- Embody (putting your best forward to meet women online and in-person)
- Engage (creating flirty, inspiring conversations so women see you as a suitor, not a sidekick)
- Execute (orchestrating great dates that lead to relationships on your terms)


Want to get to know me better?
Here are some fun facts...
🐮 I'm a new Texan by way of California.
😻 I live with my fiancé, our dog Deedee, and our one-eyed cat Cedar.
💪 I love physical activities like surfing, yoga, hiking, and Barry's Bootcamp.
🛫 Before I dove into coaching full-time, I worked in the travel industry and lived out of a suitcase.
🐙🌵 I'm obsessed with octopuses (no I don't eat them!) and saguaro cacti (I grew up in Arizona).
❤️ I'd love to work with you!