Transform Your Dating Life in 30 Days

My Dating Masterclass is for guys who want to stop feeling confused, frustrated, or intimidated by dating, and start confidently attracting women they like ❤️

It can be helpful to you whether you're:

• Relatively inexperienced with dating because you’ve focused on other areas of your life to date, or because you’ve had negative experiences with dating in the past, and you’re ready to dive in and start attracting partners you like without the lengthy trial-and-error, DIY struggle.
• Experienced with dating, but you aren’t getting the results you want because it feels like the women you’re most attracted to aren’t interested in you, or women don’t seem to see you as a romantic partner generally, and you’re ready to see a meaningful change fast.

Many of the guys who take my Masterclass fall into two categories:

1. 🧑‍🔬 The engineer, who may or may not be an actual engineer. This is you if you have a solid career and fulfilling personal life, and you're ready for your dating life to catch up.
2. 👨‍👧‍👦 The divorcé. This is you if you weren't expecting to be single again, and could use a refresher on dating generally (and dating in the digital age specifically) now that you're back on the market.

... though my program has helped guys from just about every background you can think of. My clients are short, tall, white, black, Asian, Indian, American, European, rich, blue collar, outgoing, shy, handsome, "ugly", athletic, disabled, thin, overweight, fit, you name it 😃🌐

Heads up, my Masterclass will be a better fit for you if you’ve been in the professional world for a few years, and you're comfortable financially. Being blunt, dating isn't cheap — if my Masterclass feels like a stretch for you financially, you'll get better results dating by focusing on and developing your career, whether or not you ultimately decide to invest in my program. Women aren't nearly as interested in money as some guys think, but attractive women don't typically choose to get involved with guys who are in shaky financial situations either!

Great question! I typically cannot help:

1. Guys who believe they are beyond help. If you’ve convinced yourself that you are a lost cause when it comes to dating, I probably can’t convince you otherwise, or improve your dating life. Dating is heavily psychological, and the most critical fundamental for dating success is belief in yourself. This isn’t to say you need much self-confidence coming in — my job is to help you develop confidence! — but my program won’t be as effective as therapy if you’re starting from a place of total self-disbelief.
2. Guys who are seeking a magic pill. If you expect that you can watch a few hours of videos online, and then suddenly you will become a Casanova who is surrounded by gorgeous women wherever he goes, you probably won't get great results from my Masterclass. I give you a proven recipe for success that has been tested by 1,000+ guys, but at the end of the day, you have to take action and bake the cookies.
3. Guys who drown in the theory. Many of my students are highly analytical, and these guys get phenomenal results with my Masterclass because I present a systems-oriented approach to dating. Most over-thinkers also get good results, because my coaching helps them simplify decisions and break out of analysis paralysis. However, occasionally guys will sign up for my Masterclass who become preoccupied with the edge cases that my program may not explicitly address, and they fixate on these edge cases instead of implementing the simple, practical, and relatively universal advice it does cover. These guys tend to get poor results relative to the guys who bias toward taking action.

If any of these sounds like you, I genuinely wish you the best, but please don’t sign up for my Dating Masterclass ❤️

One more note —

If you're looking for 1x1 coaching or support, this isn't the right program for you. My Masterclass does include a 1x1 profile makeover, and you can get personalized feedback on challenges you're encountering in your dating life during the weekly live group coaching sessions, or through my DBB Community, but it does not include 1x1 coaching with me beyond the Profile Makeover. For 1x1 coaching, check out my new program Jumpstart Your Dating Life instead!

Great question.

📅 I host my Masterclass 4x times per year. I'm targeting Tuesday, March 28, 2023 for my Spring 2023 session!

🎟️ Enrollment happens on a rolling basis. The program includes some personalized components (e.g. 1x1 Profile Makeover) as well as weekly live group coaching, and I don't have capacity to help everyone, so spots are limited and always sell out in advance... Once you've applied, I'll follow up ASAP to let you know if I have an open spot in my next session!

⚡ Once you enroll, you get instant access to all of my Masterclass course materials including the five recorded modules (which are broken into dozens of individual, digestible video lessons) plus dozens of bonus videos, handouts, and instruction guides, and free access to my new Texting OS course.

📼 The course itself is 100% go-at-your-own-pace. In the past, I exclusively offered my Masterclass as a live five-week program, but based on feedback from clients who preferred more flexible access, you now can dive in anytime, and watch as many (or as few) of the lessons in one sitting as you choose. I personally recommend watching one module per week, so you have time to process the information and implement the learnings, but it's totally up to you!

🎙️ The live coaching sessions are designed to answer your questions. Guys tend to ask a lot of questions about how these work, so here are the details:

• The live sessions are lecture-style Q&A format, over Zoom. Your camera and mic are off, so they're totally anonymous, but you can use the chat function to ask me questions, and they typically last 60-90 minutes.
• There are 5x live coaching sessions, and each maps to a course module. We'll cover questions related to Module 1 during our first live session, questions related to Module 2 during our second live session, etc.
• The first live coaching session will be on Tuesday, March 28 at 5:30pm PST / 8:30pm EST. The next four sessions will happen on the subsequent Tuesdays, at the same time, in the same Zoom room.
• Can't attend live? No problem! Each session is recorded. I'll share a link to submit questions in advance of each session, and I'll upload the recording to our student site shortly after the session wraps up.
• Only ~50% of my Masterclass choose to attend the live sessions. You can get questions answered in the Discord community, too, and IMO the bulk of the program value is in the recorded curriculum, so I'd think of the live sessions as the cherry on top of the sundae, if that makes sense :)

👩‍👦‍👦 Community access begins as soon as you enroll. The community is hosted on Discord, and it exists so you can get questions answered + connect with other students. Like the live sessions, participation in the community is as private and anonymous as you want.

🤝 You decide when we do your 1x1 Profile Makeover. I share easy-to-follow instructions for your Makeover during the course, but in short, you'll create a Slide presentation of a draft profile with a few different photo and prompt options, then I'll share detailed feedback to turn your profile into a matchmaking magnet! My only ask here is that you submit your profile for makeover to me within 3 months of signing up.

My Masterclass does include a few personalized components (e.g. the 1x1 Profile Makeover with me), and you may receive personalized feedback from me on questions in the live coaching sessions or the DBB Community, but it does not include true 1x1 coaching.

The good news is that you don't need 1x1 coaching to stop feeling awkward or unsure of yourself with women, and start attracting women you're excited about. Through years of working with guys 1x1, I've learned:

• 📍 Every guy starts at a different "point A" with dating. That is to say, your personal dating background and experiences are unique.
• 📍 Most guys want to reach the same "point B" however. You probably want confidence, options, and (eventually) an awesome partner.
• 🚘 Getting from "point A" to "point B" requires the same knowledge, skills, and habits no matter where your "point A" is. This is precisely what I cover in my Masterclass.

Looking at this through another lens, 1,000+ guys have successfully taken my Masterclass, and followed its step-by-step instructions to see dramatic improvements in their dating lives fast. All of these guys came from different backgrounds, most of these guys were suspicious about taking an online course on dating, and still the vast majority (more than 90%) have reported seeing tangible improvements in their dating lives within 30 days, and even more would recommend working with me (more than 95%) to a friend 🤠

There's nothing wrong with wanting personalized attention — it can be super helpful and valuable in many cases — I just don't include it with my Masterclass to help keep the price down.

Specifically looking for 1x1 coaching? Check out my new program Jumpstart Your Dating Life.

I created my Dating Masterclass for a few reasons!

1. Dating is a learnable skill. I know dating feels super personal and unique, but it's actually just another learnable skill, like arithmetic or swimming. You probably didn't learn how to date in school, but that doesn't make dating special or different — school failed to teach you other crucial skills like filing taxes, and time management. I've devoted my career to helping guys learn to date precisely because dating is such an important and learnable skill, and many guys didn't win the lottery and have a dad, or an older brother, or another mentor who showed them the ropes ❤️
2. Every guy needs to master the SAME handful of skills to attract women. When I started my career as a dating coach, I exclusively worked 1x1 with men. Through coaching 1,000+ guys like this, I learned that while every guy starts at a different "point A" with dating, most guys want to reach the same "point B" (i.e. confidence, options, and eventually an awesome partner), and getting from "point A" to "point B" requires the same knowledge, skills, and habits no matter where your "point A" is. To avoid burnout from teaching the same things to guys over, and over, and over again 1x1, I created a Masterclass that captures everything you need to know to attract women 👩🏼‍🏫
3. Most guys just need the right recipe, plus a little encouragement. Think back to school — maybe you'd have liked a private tutor for a couple of classes, but you probably didn't NEED one most of the time. Dating is the same. If you're reasonably intelligent and motivated, as soon as you watch my masterclass and complete the exercises, things will start to "click" and you'll see rapid improvements in your dating life. And unlike most teachers, I've spent literally thousands of hours designing and tweaking my Masterclass curriculum to help you learn as much as possible, as quickly as possible, with as little effort (or outside help) as possible 💪

My most important credentials are my clients' results.

I've helped 1,000+ guys start attracting women they're excited about through my courses and coaching programs. More than 95% report they'd recommend working with me to a friend. In addition to the testimonials scattered throughout this page, you can check out more of my clients' stories on my Testimonials page HERE, and my new Wall of Love HERE ❤️

Additionally, my free dating advice is consumed by millions of men per month across my Instagram, my TikTok, and my YouTube, and has been featured in media outlets like the NYPost, Forbes, Vice i-D, Cosmo, and more 📰

The total cost of my Masterclass is either:

• One lump payment of $1,295 USD
• Three monthly payments of $485 USD
• Six monthly payments of $279 USD

I've put 10,000+ hours into developing and testing the materials for my Masterclass — it includes virtually every resource I’ve created over years of coaching 1,500+ clients — plus it includes a 1x1 dating app profile makeover with me, and live coaching sessions. Basically, the program is really freaking good at helping men start attracting women they like, and I put a crazy amount of work into it, so if you decide to give it a chance, you’ll see why it's worth it 🤠

P.S. I’m aware my Masterclass isn’t in every guy’s budget. My Masterclass is like a Tesla Model 3 or Y. It’s not the fanciest or most expensive option out there — it's just a high-quality experience priced commensurate to value, that’s specifically for guys who’ve achieved enough in their professional lives that they can invest in themselves now that it’s time to focus on personal development and dating.

P.P.S. If this isn’t in your budget, no sweat! Check out my Texting OS and free resources, or even feel free to explore opportunities with other coaches. My Masterclass probably isn't the cheapest option available, and while price is just one of many variables you should consider when evaluating an investment like this — how many times have you tried to save a buck and bought the less-expensive of two products you were comparing, realized it sucks, wound up *also* buying the more-expensive alternative, and wishing you'd just bought in the first place? — it's absolutely a major financial decision.

P.P.P.S. The total cost with the monthly payments is higher than with the lump payment. This is because I pay more in transaction fees with the monthly payments, and there's extra work + risk for me if your payments bounce. Just making this crystal clear before you make a decision.

Excellent question!

As of Spring 2023, I offer 3 programs: (1) my Texting OS course, (2) my Dating Masterclass, and (3) Jumpstart Your Dating Life.

1️⃣ My Texting OS is a ~2 hour self-serve course on texting. It will help you stop second guessing yourself when you communicate with women, start sending fun, flirty messages that make her want more, and feel confident you're saying the right thing, every time. If you specifically just need help with messaging on dating apps and texting, it's the perfect option, and it's even been featured in the New York Times! You can learn more here.

2️⃣ My Dating Masterclass is an end-to-end, interactive course that will help you transform your dating life fast. The backbone is a five video module curriculum that covers everything you need to know to stop feeling awkward or unsure of yourself around women, and start attracting women you're excited about. My Masterclass also includes five weekly live group coaching sessions, a month of access to my student & alumni community, and a 1x1 profile makeover with me, so you get some personalized attention, if not private 1x1 coaching.

3️⃣ Jumpstart Your Dating Life includes everything with my Masterclass, plus private 1x1 coaching with yours truly throughout. Like my Masterclass, Jumpstart Your Dating Life will help you feel sexually attractive, date women you’re excited about, and stop doubting yourself — just with my help on-demand. Jumpstart Your Dating Life a larger investment because we work closely together over the course of 12 weeks. You can learn more here.

My Masterclass and Jumpstart Your Dating Life cover the same material, and you can expect great results with either program. The key difference is just the level of depth and personalization:

• Want a streamlined, lower-cost, DIY experience? My Masterclass is your best option.
• Want a deeper, personalized, 1x1 experience? Jumpstart Your Dating Life is your best option.
• On the fence between my Masterclass and Jumpstart? This may be the "wrong" thing to say from a business perspective, but honestly, start with my Masterclass. You may find everything you need, and you can always upgrade to Jumpstart later — I will of course apply your Masterclass investment to the price of Jumpstart — just email me, and we’ll get it sorted out ❤️ 

Great question!

I'd recommend you budget ~5 hours a week over ~5 weeks to get the best results from my Masterclass ⏳📈

Historically, I taught my Masterclass live over 5 weeks, and my most successful students (i.e. the guys who notice huge changes, and land attractive girlfriends fast) would invest about 5 hours per week in my program over the 5 weeks.

My Masterclass is now go-at-your-own-pace, so in theory you could watch all of the lessons on day 1, but I generally DON'T recommend this because the curriculum takes time to process and implement. Rushing through the lesson recordings can create the illusion you "know everything" when you've barely scratched the surface.

Stepping back, it typically takes 30 days to form a habit. Plus, it's hard to master >1 skill at a time. So, depending on where you're starting from, you may want to stretch the program over a month, if not multiple months.

You generally don't need to worry about being "too busy" for my Masterclass because you get lifetime access to the lesson recordings and you can start, or pause, or restart watching anytime. There is one asterisk here... 

I ask you use your 1x1 Profile Makeover included with my Masterclass within 3 months of signup. This is because I often have more demand for my services than I can keep up with, and life is uncertain, so I can't guarantee I'll have capacity to give your profile the attention it deserves 3+ months from now.

A good rule of thumb, then, is:

• Have enough time for dating today? If you’re actively going out, or swiping on apps, or just spending hours a week thinking about dating… You have enough time for my Masterclass 🙌
• Don’t have enough time for dating? If you’ve recently had to cancel dates because of work or personal commitments, or you’ve let the ball drop in a relationship because you’ve been too busy… You should probably wait to sign up until you're less busy ❤️

How soon you will see results depends on a few things:

1. The scope of what specifically you want to accomplish. If you’re struggling with texting, you will see results literally on day one after you’ve watched my Texting OS course, and we’ve swapped notes about a specific situation you’re trying to sort through with a woman. If you’re struggling to build self-confidence, it may take several weeks of focused effort to notice a real improvement. Realistically, if you’re considering investing $1,295 into working with me, you probably have deeper challenges to overcome than just texting, so I’d expect that you will start to experience the major breakthroughs you’re looking for more on the scale of weeks or even months, not hours or days. More than 90% of my students report seeing from my Masterclass within 30 days, but it may take longer to see EVERY result you're looking for 📈
2. How hard you work. Stepping back, my program isn’t magic, and dating isn’t particularly unique vs any other skill you could learn. The more effort you invest here, the better the results you’ll get. As the saying goes, "you can’t cheat the grind." Still, the same way you will get pretty damn good at tennis by diligently playing for an hour a day with a pro for a month, you will get pretty damn good at dating by diligently devoting an hour a day to my program for a month 🎾
3. How well you follow directions. Having worked with 1,000+ guys, I’ve observed that (A) there is a MASSIVE difference in how well some men follow directions vs others, and (B) this difference is directly proportional to the results guys get from my coaching programs. If you're good at following instructions (e.g. school wasn’t terribly challenging when you applied yourself), you can expect to get results from my Masterclass fast. If you are bad at following instructions (e.g. in school or job settings, sometimes it feels like no matter how hard you work, you just don’t understand things...) candidly you may not see results with my Masterclass, and I don’t want you to make a bad investment ❤️

No sweat if you can't attend the live sessions!

📼 Each session is recorded, and you can watch anytime. After every live session, I'll upload the recordings to our student site ASAP. You can watch (or re-watch) as you please.

😃 About 50% of my clients never attend live, and still get awesome results. Some of these guys live in parts of the world where the live session timing is inconvenient; others just don't want to attend the live sessions, and prefer to watch everything on their own time. It doesn't impact their experience!

😙 The live Q&A is a relatively small part of the program. Being blunt, the bulk of my Masterclass's value is in (1) the course recordings, which you get immediate access to; (2) the 1x1 profile makeover; and (3) the community, where you can ask questions anytime. The live Q&A sessions are designed to answer your questions and reinforce your learnings, but they're like a cherry on top of the sundae, not the sundae itself 🍨

My Masterclass is a big investment, and I want to give you to feel comfortable and secure if you decide to work with me, so I offer the following refund policy and guarantee.

Decide within 5 days of enrolling in my Masterclass that you don't want to proceed?

Just email me, and I will refund you pro-rata based on your consumption of the recorded Masterclass curriculum.

For example, if you don't start the program, but just you get cold feet, I'll give you 100% of your money back, no questions asked.

Likewise, if you've watched 20% of the recorded curriculum, I'll give you 80% of your Masterclass investment back.

Note there are a couple of additional rules here:

1. You can't have started my Texting OS course. You get access to my My Texting OS with your Masterclass purchase, and because my Texting OS is relatively quick and unambiguously effective (I don't encourage it, but you can literally copy and paste the messages, and get amazing results...) I don't offer refunds when it's purchased on its own. Therefore, if you request a refund for my Masterclass and you've started watching my Texting OS, I will deduct the $149 USD price of my Texting OS from your Masterclass refund.
2. We can't have done our 1x1 Profile Makeover. This probably wouldn't happen within 5 days of enrollment, but just in case... Once I've invested time and effort into your Profile Makeover, I can't offer you a refund for my Masterclass under any circumstances.
3. We'll determine how much you've consumed based on my course hosting service's records. The service that hosts my recorded courses, Kajabi, shows me how much of the course you've consumed. I've never had a problem with this before, but if you were to tell me you've only watched one module, and Kajabi showed me you've watched four modules, your refund will be based on watching four modules.
4. I can't give you a refund >5 days after you enroll under any circumstances. This is because I'm a small business owner, and I start deploying revenue from my sales for things like content production, new projects, my assistant's salary, and my mortgage basically as soon as it comes in.

I hope this gives you comfort and security in your decision to invest in my program ❤️

One last thought...

If you're already thinking about asking for a refund (e.g. maybe you're super skeptical, or the investment is a stretch for you financially, or you often don't find value in things you purchase...) please don't enroll in my Masterclass.

Refund requests for my Masterclass are thankfully very rare, but they're expensive (I pay about $50 in processing fees...) and depressing (I'll feel like I've let you down...) Basically, I absolutely DO NOT want your money if you suspect you'll want it back!

I'm excited for you to join my Masterclass!

Tap here to apply for my next session already 😃