Jumpstart Your Dating Life

My new 1x1 coaching program Jumpstart Your Dating Life is for guys who want to start feeling sexually attractive, and dating women they’re excited about, and stop doubting themselves.

Because it’s heavily personalized, Jumpstart Your Dating Life can be for you whether you are:

• 👶 Relatively new or inexperienced with dating because you’ve focused on other areas of your life to date, or because you’ve had negative experiences with dating in the past, and you’re ready to dive in and start attracting partners you like without the lengthy trial-and-error, DIY struggle.
• 👨 Experienced with dating, but you aren’t getting the results you want because it feels like the women you’re most attracted to aren’t interested in you, or women don’t seem to see you as a romantic partner generally, and you’re ready to see a meaningful change fast.

Many of my clients fall into two categories:

1. 🧑‍🔬 The engineer, who may or may not be an actual engineer. This is you if you have an solid career and fulfilling personal life, and you're ready for your dating life to catch up.
2. 👨‍👧‍👦 The divorcé. This is you if you weren't expecting to be single again, and could use a refresher on dating generally (and dating in the digital age specifically) now that you're back on the market.

... though my program has helped guys from just about every background you can think of. My clients are short, tall, white, black, Asian, Indian, American, European, rich, blue collar, outgoing, shy, handsome, "ugly", athletic, disabled, thin, overweight, fit, you name it 😃🌐

Heads up, Jumpstart Your Dating Life is a bigger investment than my self-serve courses (it's my only 1x1 coaching program), so it will be a better fit for you if you’ve been in the professional world for a few years, and you're in a comfortable financial position that allows you to invest in your personal development without worrying about rent or bills.

Great question! I typically cannot help:

1. Guys who believe they are beyond help. If you’ve convinced yourself that you are a lost cause when it comes to dating, I probably can’t convince you otherwise, or improve your dating life. Dating is heavily psychological, and the most critical fundamental for dating success is belief in yourself. This isn’t to say you need much self-confidence coming in — my job is to help you develop confidence! — but my program won’t be as effective as therapy if you’re starting from a place of total self-disbelief.
2. Guys who drown in the theory. Many of my clients are highly analytical, and these guys get phenomenal results with my coaching and programs because I present a systems-oriented approach to dating. I also get great results with most over-thinkers, because my coaching helps them simplify decisions and break out of analysis paralysis. However, I occasionally work with clients who would rather engage in verbose debate about the nuances of my approach than simply try it out (e.g. they send me daily 500-word emails that boil down to “I’m finding excuses to not follow your recommendations”) and these guys virtually never get results.
3. Guys who are seeking a pen pal. If deep down you just need a trustworthy friend to talk to, as opposed to a dating coach to get your rear into gear, this probably isn’t the right program for you. There are less expensive ways to find companionship, and while I’d like to help you, I’d rather to work with guys who are serious about getting results and landing awesome girlfriends.

If any of these sounds like you, I genuinely wish you the best, but please don’t apply for Jumpstart Your Dating Life ❤️

Great question!

Before you sign up, we’ll typically have a brief 1x1 Zoom consultation. This is because Jumpstart Your Dating Life is a major investment, and it’s important that:

• 🤝 You get a chance to meet me, and feel confident that I can help you achieve your dating and personal goals
• 📈 I get a chance to meet you, and feel confident you will actually get return on your investment in my program

If we both feel good that it’s a fit, you’ll sign up and receive immediate access to my self-serve coaching programs, (1) my Texting OS, and (2) my Dating Masterclass. I encourage you to dive into these right away, because the content will lay a foundation for your path forward.

We’ll also schedule your first of our four 1x1 live coaching sessions. During our first session, I’ll get to know you more deeply, and I’ll help you set a few personal goals for the next 12 weeks. We’ll also schedule your next three live 1x1 sessions at four-week intervals. We’ll use these to check in on progress, work through challenges, and keep you motivated 🤠

Then from there, we’ll communicate via email and text as you have questions in between your live coaching sessions. We can chat about challenges in your dating life, how to respond to tricky messages, your dating app profiles, and more.

We can add structure to your 12-week program as you see fit. Some of my clients prefer an open-ended program, and prefer to leverage my coaching ad hoc. Others prefer to focus on a couple of specific goals, and prefer to leverage my coaching for focused feedback, accountability, and encouragement against their progress. I can do both, so what style we pursue is 100% your choice!

Yes, but if you're asking, please read on!

Jumpstart Your Dating Life includes three types of 1x1 coaching:

1. 📹 Live video coaching. We'll have four live 1x1 video coaching sessions to set goals, discuss challenges and opportunities in-depth, and deepen your learnings. These sessions are typically about 45 minutes, but there's no hard stop.
2. 📲 Ongoing async coaching. You get 1x1 email access to me throughout the 12-week program. Email coaching is helpful because it means we don't have to deal with the hassle of scheduling a call every time you need a question answered!
3. 💖 Full 1x1 dating app profile makeover. We'll do this via email, because it allows us to look at all of the pieces of your profile methodically.

Notes on the live video coaching 👩‍🏫 

I deliberately offer four live sessions during the 12-week program. This is because I’ve observed that clients get steeply diminishing returns to more live 1x1 coaching in such a short timeframe. Basically, we’ll use the live sessions to punctuate chapters in your personal development, not catch up on day-to-day events. We have email for that!

Notes on the async email coaching 📝 

This is “unlimited” with the caveats that:

1. I’m not on my phone 24/7. I typically respond to emails promptly, and virtually always within 48 hours unless there’s an important reason I can’t (e.g. travel, no service, holiday, etc) but I don’t offer a more specific service-level agreement because, well, life happens.
2. I can’t read novel-length messages. After working 1x1 with 1,000+ clients, I’ve learned that 100+ words of context around a single dating question is rarely useful. Additionally, the same urge that drives guys to send excessively long emails tends to drive many of their dating troubles... Learning to (1) stop sweating every detail, (2) accept that your situation isn’t as unique as you might imagine (most guys struggle with the challenges!), and (3) communicate crisply will be an asset in every aspect of your life, not just dating.

This isn’t to say you can never send me a 100+ word message. It’s just to say that you will benefit from learning to trim the fat.

And yes, I’m aware of the irony that this FAQ response is 300+ words long. Do as I say, not as I do 😜

I began my career as a dating coach exclusively offering live 1x1 coaching. As demand for my services grew, I gravitated away from synchronous coaching, and personalized coaching generally, so that I could reach and serve more clients.

This shift was great from a business perspective, but it meant that I didn’t get to know most of the guys working with me very well, outside of the handful that I continued to coach 1x1 because I genuinely enjoyed it.

This shift also meant that I was turning away many awesome prospective clients who wanted a more-personalized experience than I could deliver with programs like my mostly self-serve Dating Masterclass...

I created Jumpstart Your Dating Life to solve these problems. Specifically, Jumpstart exists to help motivated guys who want a personalized, premium, and productive experience ❤️🙋‍♀️

My most important credentials are my clients' results.

I've helped 1,000+ guys start attracting women they're excited about through my courses and coaching programs. More than 95% report they'd recommend working with me to a friend. In addition to the testimonials scattered throughout this page, you can check out more of my clients' stories on my Testimonials page HERE, and my new Wall of Love HERE ❤️

Additionally, my free dating advice is consumed by millions of men per month across my Instagram, my TikTok, and my YouTube, and has been featured in media outlets like the NYPost, Forbes, Vice i-D, Cosmo, and more 📰

The total cost of Jumpstart Your Dating Life is either:

• One lump payment of $4,995 USD
• Two monthly payments of $2,695 USD
• Three monthly payments of $1,895 USD

I've put 10,000+ hours into developing and testing the materials for this program (it includes every resource I’ve created over years of coaching 1,000+ clients) plus it includes 1x1 access to me throughout the 12-week program. Basically, I’m really fucking good at helping men transform their dating lives, and if you decide to give Jumpstart Your Dating Life a chance, you’ll see why it's worth it 🤠

P.S. I’m aware this isn’t in every guy’s budget. Jumpstart Your Dating Life is like a Tesla Model S or X. It’s not a Lamborghini or a Ferrari, where you’re spending a lot of money specifically to buy something exotic. It’s just a premium experience, priced commensurate to value, that’s specifically for guys who’ve achieved a degree of success in their professional lives before, and are willing to invest in themselves now that they want to focus on personal development and dating.

P.P.S. If this isn’t in your budget, no sweat! Check out my Masterclass, my Texting OS, and my free resources.

P.P.P.S. The total cost with the monthly payments is higher than with the lump payment. This is because I pay more in transaction fees with the monthly payments, and there's extra work + risk for me if your payments bounce. Just wanted to make this crystal clear before you make a decision ❤️

Excellent question!

As of Fall 2022, I offer 3 programs: (1) my Texting OS course, (2) my Dating Masterclass, and (3) Jumpstart Your Dating Life.

1️⃣ My Texting OS course is a shorter, 100% self-serve course on texting. It will help you stop second guessing yourself when you communicate with women, start sending fun, flirty messages that make her want more, and feel confident you're saying the right thing, every time. If you specifically just need help with messaging on dating apps and texting, it's the perfect option, and you can learn more about my Texting OS here.

2️⃣ My Dating Masterclass is an end-to-end, mostly self-serve course that will help you transform your dating life fast. It includes five video modules that cover everything you need to know to stop feeling awkward or unsure of yourself around women, and start attracting women you're excited about, and it includes my Texting OS course, as well as other bonuses. My Masterclass also includes a 1x1 profile makeover with me, though this is more limited than the full makeover I offer guys in Jumpstart Your Dating Life (I don’t offer revisions to Masterclass clients, whereas I’m happy to help you revise your profile over multiple conversations as part of Jumpstart Your Dating Life) — otherwise my Masterclass doesn’t include 1x1 coaching. If a self-directed, go-at-your-own-pace program without 1x1 coaching is appealing, it's the perfect option, and you can learn more about my Masterclass here.

3️⃣ Jumpstart Your Dating Life includes everything with my Masterclass, plus in-depth 1x1 coaching with yours truly throughout. Like my Masterclass, Jumpstart Your Dating Life will help you feel sexually attractive, date women you’re excited about, and stop doubting yourself — just with my personalized help.  Jumpstart Your Dating Life a larger investment because we’ll work closely together over the course of 12 weeks. It's like the deluxe experience (e.g. Jumsptart = Tesla Model S, Masterclass = Tesla Model 3).

My Masterclass and Jumpstart Your Dating Life cover the same material, and you can expect great results with either program. The key difference is just the level of depth and personalization:

• Want a streamlined, lower-cost, DIY experience? My Masterclass is the best option.
• Want a deeper, personalized experience with 1x1 help from a coach? Jumpstart Your Dating Life is the best option.

If you’re on the fence between my Masterclass and Jumpstart Your Dating Life, you can absolutely try my Masterclass first, and upgrade to Jumpstart Your Dating Life later. I’m happy to apply your Masterclass investment to the price of Jumpstart Your Dating Life — just email me, and we’ll get it sorted out ❤️

Great question!

I'd recommend you budget ~5 hours a week over the 12 week program to get the best results from Jumpstart Your Dating Life ⏳📈

You don’t have to make time every day, but you should be able to commit about ~5 hours over the course of a week.

To illustrate this:

• It’s A-OK if you have a weekend trip (or multiple weekend trips!) planned during the 12-week program. It won’t interfere with your ability to get results.
• If you’re going through a busy time at work, and you’re worried there will be weeks where you can’t give my program much if any attention, you should wait to sign up until you have more free time.

Put more simply:

• Have enough time for dating today? If you’re actively going out, or swiping on apps, or just spending hours a week thinking about dating… You have enough time for my program 🙌
• Don’t have enough time for dating? If you’ve recently had to cancel dates because of work or personal commitments, or you’ve let the ball drop in a relationship because you’ve been too busy… You probably don’t have enough time for my program ❤️

Two last notes here:

• You have lifetime access to program materials including my Masterclass, Texting OS, our coaching sessions, and bonus materials, so you can always review these after our 12-week program ends.
• Once we’ve started, I generally can’t accommodate requests to “pause” the 1x1 coaching. My calendar is carefully balanced to ensure I can give you an awesome experience for 12 weeks after you sign up, and pausing may interfere with my ability to make good on my commitments to other clients. For context, I regularly have to turn down prospective clients because I don’t have enough coaching capacity... I’m willing to *consider* exceptions to this rule for genuine emergencies, but I don’t want to make promises, and you should wait to sign up if you foresee needing to ask for an exception.

How soon you will see results depends on a few things:

1. The scope of what specifically you want to accomplish. If you’re struggling with texting, you will see results literally on day one after you’ve watched my Texting OS course, and we’ve swapped notes about a specific situation you’re trying to sort through with a woman. If you’re struggling to build self-confidence, it may take several weeks of focused effort to notice a real improvement. Realistically, if you’re considering investing $4,995 into working with me, you probably have deeper challenges to overcome than just texting, so I’d expect that you will start to experience the major breakthroughs you’re looking for more on the scale of weeks or even months, not hours or days. I’ve deliberately made this a 12-week program because that’s often how long it takes to make multiple important changes, and truly entrench new good habits in place of decades-old bad habits 📈
2. How hard you work. Stepping back, my program isn’t magic, and dating isn’t terribly unique versus any other skill you could learn. The more effort you put in, the better the results you’ll get. You can’t cheat the grind. Still, the same way you will get pretty damn good at tennis by playing for an hour a day with a pro for 3 months, you will get pretty damn good at dating by devoting an hour a day to my program for 3 months 🎾
3. How well you follow directions. Having worked with 1,000+ guys, I’ve observed that (A) there is a MASSIVE difference in how well some men follow directions vs others, and (B) this difference is directly proportional to the results guys get from my programs. If you're good at following instructions (e.g. school wasn’t terribly challenging when you applied yourself), you will get results fast. If you are bad at following instructions (e.g. in school or job settings, sometimes it feels like no matter how hard you work, you just don’t understand things...) candidly you may not see results with my program, and I don’t want you to make a bad investment ❤️

My Masterclass is a big investment, and I want to give you to feel comfortable and secure if you decide to work with me, so I offer the following refund policy and guarantee.

Decide within 5 days of enrolling in Jumpstart that you don't want to proceed?

Just email me, and I will give you a full refund, as long as you meet the following conditions:

1. You've not started my Texting OS course. You get access to my My Texting OS with your Jumpstart purchase, and because my Texting OS is relatively quick and unambiguously effective (I don't encourage it, but you can literally copy and paste the messages, and get amazing results...) I don't offer refunds when it's purchased on its own. Therefore, if you request a refund for Jumpstart and you've started watching my Texting OS, I will deduct the $149 USD price of my Texting OS from your Jumpstart refund.

2. You've not started my Masterclass. This is to prevent bad apples (probably not you!) from signing up, watching most of my Masterclass, then requesting a refund. If you've begun my Masterclass, you can have the same pro-rated refund for the portion of the program you've watched (e.g. if you've watched 20% --> I'll refund you 80% of the Masterclass's $1,295 USD value) according to my course hosting service's records.
3. We've not had our first live 1x1 coaching session. If we've had our first live 1x1 coaching session, I'll deduct $500 USD from your refund for my time. Basically, let's make sure our communication styles mesh during our consultation call before you sign up, not after!
4. I can't give you a refund >5 days after you enroll under any circumstances. This is because I'm a small business owner, and I start deploying revenue from my sales for things like content production, new projects, my assistant's salary, and my mortgage basically as soon as it comes in.

I hope this gives you comfort and security in your decision to invest in my program ❤️

One last thought...

If you're already thinking about asking for a refund (maybe you're super skeptical, or the investment is a stretch for you financially, or you often don't find value in things you purchase), please don't sign up for Jumpstart.

I've thankfully never had to refund a Jumpstart client, but a refund would be expensive (I'd pay about $200 in processing fees) and depressing (I'd feel like I've let you down). Basically, I don't want your money if you think you'll want it back!

Yes.

First, apply for Jumpstart Your Dating Life at the bottom of this page. If I think the program is a good fit for you, we’ll connect 1x1 via Zoom so I can answer questions for you, and we can get to know each other.

Then, if you’d like to connect with a past client before making your decision, I’d be glad to put you in touch with one 🤝

Because Jumpstart Your Dating Life is a meaningful investment, and my coaching capacity is limited, we’d both benefit from having a brief 1x1 consultation before you sign up!

Tap here to apply (it takes like 60 seconds), and I’ll email you as soon as I’ve had a chance to review your application ❤️📨