4.86/5 from 7,000+ clients

I'm Blaine, your matchmaker & dating coach

I help guys like you (yes, you!) build confidence, learn to flirt, and land awesome girlfriends.

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testimonials

What guys are saying about Blaine

You aren't alone,
dating is CONFUSING

I've got good
news for you...
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Like most valuable skills, attracting women isn't something you learn in school.


Maybe you've been too busy succeeding in school and your career to really focus on dating until now.

But let’s be honest…

You're probably bad at marketing yourself!

After working with >7,000 single men, I've learned this is universally true 🙃

But here's the good news: you aren't the problem.


Deep down, you already know this!

You see less-successful, less-intelligent guys dating attractive women and wonder, "Why not me?"

The problem is how you MARKET yourself.

Being a nice guy is fine, but it isn't sexy.

You need real confidence, and you need to create romantic chemistry with women.

That’s where I come in 🧪😜

What guys are saying about Blaine

Meet Anthony!

"Blaine's funny, she uses analogies that are helpful, she's cohesive, she really wants you to be successful in your dating life, and life in general. It helps you mentally. It helps you gain that confidence."

Meet Daniel!

"Before the course, I had worked on myself and was already a grounded man, but wasn't always confident in my approach. Now, I have more confidence, I'm more selective, and 9 out of 10 women I swipe on are swiping on me. I know how to market myself thanks to Blaine. The cost was worth every penny times 10."

Meet Jack!

Whether you are totally introverted and shy, or you can get dates, but you’re getting friend-zoned, the solutions are there. Blaine's program is for anyone who just wants to level up, and tweak a few areas...

Meet Matthew!

"I struggled for a very long time as an introverted computer programmer who doesn’t have a chiseled face, or the abs. I have a date in two days, and it’s all thanks to Blaine and her masterclass! It was 100% worth the investment."

Meet Mike!

"After just 72 hours I had hundreds of matches, and went on a bunch of dates. I'm about to go on a 4th date with a woman I like."

Meet Raul!

"You get 1x1 attention, and you can ask questions. You get a lot of feedback… and cheat sheets you can use to make your own recipe. Give it a try. Your life will change. Not just dating. Your life in general. It’s worth it."

Meet Ryan!

"Blaine provided huge value to me with regards to my approach and confidence. I highly recommend you table your doubts. If you want something you've never had, you have to do something you've never done. Go f***ing sign up!"

Let's change your trajectory

I need to tell you something important.

Dating is a learnable skill you can master fast.

It's like learning to drive. Once you understand the organizing principles, and you practice, it becomes second nature.

Stop beating yourself up because you weren't born knowing how to date!

That's not your fault.

It's 100% your fault if you don't bother to learn now, though 😉

I’ve helped 7,000+ men
learn how to date
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My team and I offer matchmaking, coaching, and self-study programs that will help you quickly:

how it works

Attract AMAZING women

IRL, and on apps like Hinge + Raya!

Flirt & create chemistry

So you land numbers and dates!

Feel sexually attractive

So you don't get in your own way!
Want my recommendation on where to start?

What guys are saying about Blaine

Meet Bradley M

Shortly after I finished your course, I started dating my wonderful girlfriend Barrie, and we've now been together about a year. I'm thrilled to be one of your (many) success stories.

Meet FRANCIS R

I continue to appreciate your help to make it possible for me to meet people like her!

Meet Jack!

Whether you are totally introverted and shy, or you can get dates, but you’re getting friend-zoned, the solutions are there. Blaine's program is for anyone who just wants to level up, and tweak a few areas...

Meet KHIZER K

Blaine teaches you to be yourself, and position yourself, in a way that you can attract and sustain a relationship with women you thought were out of your league. Thank you for everything, Blaine!

Meet KV!

It was purely based on your advice that my dating life has improved. My favorite part was the Thirsting and Thriving examples. It showed me exactly what and where I was going wrong.

Meet MARK S

I am getting a constant stream of high quality connections on Hinge and have already been on 5 dates in the last 2.5 weeks. I am following your system closely and it's working well. Plus, I met someone IRL at a pub. Thanks again. A+ course.

Meet Matt G

I got engaged to the woman of my dreams! Thank you so much for the help, it was a big investment that I’m thankful I took, it helped me so much and led me to where I am today.

Meet ZACH K

You have seriously changed my life. I started dating my dream girl 2 weeks ago, and we made our relationship official today!

Meet ZACHARY K

I had given up on dating. Then I met Blaine… You BET this works!

Oh, by the way...
I've helped 7,000+ clients get unstuck

The guys I work with come from every background you can imagine!

many of my clients:

Work in finance, engineering, or another analytical field
and want their dating lives to catch up with their personal and professional lives.
Recently exited long-term relationships, weren't expecting to be single again, and don't want to waste time bouncing back.
Have less experience with women and dating, though many have what feels like too much experience without finding their person!
Land dates regularly, but aren't meeting the “9s” and “10s” they know they deserve, and don't want to settle.
Are short, tall, white collar, blue collar, white, black, Asian, Indian, shy, outgoing, handsome, "unphotogenic," fit, heavy — you name it!
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As long as you're motivated to learn, and you're not an asshole, there's a 100% chance we can help!

There’s a whole team behind you 🤝
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