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5 Easy Ways For Introverted Guys To Meet Women

approaching women dating for introverts Jan 29, 2022
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Do you identify as “shy” or “introverted”?

For shy or introverted guys, meeting women can be daunting 😬

  • You have to put yourself in foreign social situations…

  • You have to start conversations with women you don’t know (aka total strangers)…

  • You have to ask these women for their numbers…

👉 Ready for a boost? Read on for…

  • 5 of the best places for introverted men to meet women that make it relatively easy to start conversations 📍

  • Sample language you can use to start a conversation 🗣️



#1: Continuing Education Classes

Continuing education classes (e.g. at a local college) can be great ways for shy or introverted men to meet women because:

  • Conversation & discussion with your classmates (who may be attractive women 😏) is often part of the program

  • You’ll have something to talk about if you ever bump into a cute student at the campus cafe ☕

Unsure how to start the conversation?

Try saying something like:

“I’m {YOUR NAME} and I’ve seen you in class a couple times. What do you think of the lectures so far?”





#2: Dance classes

You may think I’m crazy, but dance classes can be one of the best places for shy or introverted men to meet women, because:

  • Dance classes force you to engage with partners 🤝

  • They tend to attract dramatically more women than men, particularly women who like to be active and have a good time 💃

Unsure how to start the conversation?

Try saying something like:

“I’m {YOUR NAME} and it’s great to meet you. You have amazing moves. Have you done dance classes before?”


#3: Volunteer activities or organizations

Volunteer activities or organizations can be amazing ways to meet women particularly for shy or introverted men. Why?

Volunteer activities tend to attract good-hearted, warm, and encouraging people ❤️

There’s natural collaboration and communication 🤝

Volunteer activities tend to make you feel good, which can make it easier to start a conversation 😃

To help stir ideas, some fun volunteer / charity activities I’ve participated in the past include:

  • Serving or preparing meals 🍲
  • Sorting surplus or “ugly” produce (e.g. I’ve done this at the SF-Marin Food Bank!) 🍓
  • Planting trees in an urban area 🌳
  • Care for animals at a rescue 🐕
  • Renovating a shelter 🏥
  • Building a house for a needy family 🏠

Unsure how to start the conversation?

Try saying something like:

“I’m {YOUR NAME} and it’s great to meet you. What brought you out here to volunteer today?”

 


#4: Bookstores or Libraries

Bookstores and libraries can be terrific places for shy or introverted men to meet women because:

  • Used bookstores in particular tend to have a unique, social character that encourages conversation 🗣️

  • If she’s eyeing a book you’ve read (or even just a book you’re curious about), you have a natural excuse to introduce yourself 👋

  • They tend to attract introverted women 🤓

Unsure how to start the conversation?

Try saying something like:

“I’m {YOUR NAME} and I couldn’t help but notice you’re eyeing that book. I read it last summer and loved it. Thinking about purchasing it?”



#5: Museums, Art Galleries, and Art Exhibitions

Museums, art galleries, and art exhibitions classes can be great places for shy or introverted guys to meet women because:

  • The art or pieces on exhibit can lend themselves to free-flowing, fun conversations 😊
  • These places tend to attract thoughtful and artistic women 👩‍🎨

Unsure how to start the conversation?

Try saying something like:

“I’m {YOUR NAME} and I love this piece too. Do you know anything about the artist?”



Try spending time in any of these places, and let me know if it helps!


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